Of course!
Jesus, i'm so stupid. How could I forget?
You're supposed to fake
interest, not genuinely show it. Questions are aggressive. How
could I forget?
Especially when it comes to personal issues. You don't pose
personal questions to people you've just met. No, you have to
wait. Otherwise it seems like I was trying to get nside their
heads. Which I am trying to do. I just always forget that's not
approved of.
I'm starting to understand
why all the people I used to associate with loved talking about
themselves. I listen a lot because I'm interested. Not
necessarily on the person her/himself but his worldview. I forget
that asking questions is not good thing. It's intrusive. You don't
do it.
I always forget that because I tend to get interested of the
people I talk with. And I forget it because I wouldn't mind.
Because the better I know the person the less I will talk to them
or ask questions. Because there's no point to learn to know the
person slowly. It just takes too much time and energy. And anyway,
when I talk to someone I'm usually concentrated on them for a
while.
I think I show off as a psychotic stalker to people. I could well be. I have all these qualities phychos have on tv series...
Ah, shit. I really hate
this.
It always takes me a day or two to realize what I'm doing wrong.
If I'm lucky. Sometimes I have no idea.
But you know, people are
interesting. Interesting the same way aliens may be to some. I
want to know what they think of because I have no idea. I don't
understand a thing they do.
Yay me.