Of course!
Jesus, i'm so stupid. How could I forget?

You're supposed to fake interest, not genuinely show it. Questions are aggressive. How could I forget?
Especially when it comes to personal issues. You don't pose personal questions to people you've just met. No, you have to wait. Otherwise it seems like I was trying to get nside their heads. Which I am trying to do. I just always forget that's not approved of.

I'm starting to understand why all the people I used to associate with loved talking about themselves. I listen a lot because I'm interested. Not necessarily on the person her/himself but his worldview. I forget that asking questions is not good thing. It's intrusive. You don't do it.
I always forget that because I tend to get interested of the people I talk with. And I forget it because I wouldn't mind. Because the better I know the person the less I will talk to them or ask questions. Because there's no point to learn to know the person slowly. It just takes too much time and energy. And anyway, when I talk to someone I'm usually concentrated on them for a while.

I think I show off as a psychotic stalker to people. I could well be. I have all these qualities phychos have on tv series...

Ah, shit. I really hate this.
It always takes me a day or two to realize what I'm doing wrong. If I'm lucky. Sometimes I have no idea.

But you know, people are interesting. Interesting the same way aliens may be to some. I want to know what they think of because I have no idea. I don't understand a thing they do.
Yay me.

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